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Find out the facts
Get some information about drugs and alcohol before you start the conversation.  Contact The Barn to receive information leaflets and tips on how to approach the subject.

Think about how you’ll react
Try to plan your approach and think about how you’ll react if they say they have used drugs.  Giving a positive reaction here will help to build trust between you both and make him/her more likely to talk to you.

Also, respect what they have to say and give them time to talk.  Even if they don’t admit to anything straight away, knowing that you will not loose your temper and that you are there for them may mean they’ll talk to you later.

Don’t make assumptions or accuse them of lying
Try not make assumptions or accusations as this will make them less likely to talk to you.

Pick a good time and use opportunities
Don’t try to tackle the subject while they are rushing around getting ready for school.  Try to find a good time when they are not busy doing something else and take it slowly.  If they are using drugs, don’t confront them while they’re under the influence as this may not have any affect and make it harder for you to broach the subject when everything has calmed down.

Drug storylines are always coming up on TV and in the news, try to use this as an opportunity to start talking about the subject.

Set boundaries
Make it clear what your house rules are so that they know what you will and won’t accept.

What next..
Click here for information about how to contact The Barn.

You may be asked to give your name and address so that we can send you some information, but your details will be kept confidential and not shared with anyone.  For information about The Barn’s confidentiality policy, click here.